A Few Things Couples Should Know When Choosing Their Rings
For centuries, rings have been used as symbols of betrothal and marriage. Early rings were not always made of metal, such as when one would be woven of grass or reed to signify an engagement. Engagements in those days were often quite brief, so the rings usually lasted until the marriage ceremony. At that time, they were often replaced with a plain iron band. As time passed, gold and silver replaced the iron, and with even more time, gems were sometimes added. Seldom, however, were diamonds used, since they were so rare that the expense meant that royals were about the only ones who could afford them. With the discovery of large diamond fields in the 1800s, the supply increased even with the tight regulations enacted by diamond mining companies.
The expense and scarcity of diamonds is often reflected in antique engagement rings. Amethysts, rubies, and sapphires were more commonly used. The metal settings, however, could be extremely ornate, and many fine examples of filigree can be found. By definition, an antique only needs to be more than five decades old, but they can also be five centuries old. Therefore, you will find a great range of styles and gems used in antique rings and there is not a simple definition for one.
For modern brides, the diamond’s cut usually has much to do with her selection. There are several traditional cuts, and almost all of them are flat on top. The round cut is very popular for a solitaire. The facets along the sides let it catch and reflect light so that even a small stone sparkles well. For princess cut engagement rings, the diamond is cut into a square shape and normally set with the prongs securing it covering each corner. This cut is also used as a solitaire frequently, although it can also be set into the metal of the band.
Whenever possible, try on both the engagement and wedding rings together or purchase as a set. Mismatched rings can sometimes become tangled or scratch each other. Jewelry designers solve this problem by creating sets that are meant to be worn together. They have also designed interlocking sets that may be joined be swirls in each band.
At some point, you may decide to wear an eternity ring with or instead of your engagement or wedding ring. Eternity styles are an unbroken circle of stones set into a channel on the band. Some variations only have gems around half of the ring. Diamonds are frequently used, either alone or with other types of gems, such as the children’s birthstones. These rings usually denote a specific milestone, such as the twenty-fifth anniversary. All three rings can be worn together if compatible.
Proper fit is essential when purchasing a ring, especially one you plan to wear constantly for many years. A metal band can be sized to make sure it will be comfortable. This service is typically included in the purchase price of the ring, but is not expensive if you have heirloom rings you wish to wear. Rings that have gems set all around the band, such as an eternity style, can usually not be sized. Stones would have to be removed for sizing, which can negatively impact the looks of the ring.
When selecting an engagement ring, consider how you plan on wearing it. An elaborate or large ring can be a nuisance over the course of your day. Constant removal can make it easier to forget or lose. These are best reserved for wear on special occasions. If you plan to wear both rings around the clock, you might prefer a smaller setting or stone.
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